The Positive Planner


July 16, 2003When you want more from life, you need a plan! The Positive Plan.

Welcome to The Positive Planner


Welcome to the premier issue of The Positive Planner!


My desire is to offer genuine value to my readers - my inbox is often full of email that may or may not have value - I don't have time to read it. So I'll keep my mailings brief and to the point by offering simple and sensible tips, quotes and resources that I hope you will use to inspire new action.


I welcome any and all feedback. If you know anyone who has an interest in practical tips for personal development, please feel free to forward this letter.


Best regards,
Michelle

Try This:


You can invest a few minutes a day on very simple practices and receive enormous return on your investment.


Here is an exercise you can use to cultivate your awareness of the simple pleasures that occur every day, and also the role you play in creating your own experience.


Tonight,when you're getting ready for sleep, ask yourself, "What made me feel good today?" Close your day by reflecting on your answers.


Tomorrow, when you wake up, ask yourself, "What will I do today to promote my values and enhance my life?" Spend the time to come up with at least one concrete action to take.


Work toward building this practice into your daily routine.


If at first this doesn't come easily, stick with it and see what happens. Remember that you are building a muscle for attending to the positive, which doesn't come naturally for everyone. If you stick with it, I expect that you'll find yourself becoming more aware of your pleasures and your opportunites, and when you notice more you'll come to experience more.

A Parable:


A highly successful and dynamic business leader was having a few days vacation in Mexico. Ever alert to commerce, he was fascinated to watch the local fishing boats at work. After three days it became apparent that one fisherman consistently seemed to out perform the rest. He didn't fish long but always returned with his boat laden with fish.


He approached the fisherman, whose name was Juan, and asked him about his consistently high catches. Juan said that it was a combination of local knowledge, fishing skill and a couple of family secrets that made him successful.


The businessman pointed out to Juan that he only seemed to fish until about noon, and asked what he did with the rest of his day. "I take a siesta, see my wife, play with the kids and have a drink with my friends in the plaza." The businessman then made Juan a proposition, he would fund Juan to oversee a fleet of ten boats and by working 12 hours a day he could generate a huge income.


Juan replied, "But why would I do that when I would have so little time for life's pleasures?" The businessman did some quick calculations and said, "Don't worry, in 10 years you'll have made enough money to retire." "What would I do if I retired?" asked Juan. The businessman thought, looked at the picturesque village, and said, "You could take a siesta, spend time with your wife, play with the kids and have a drink with your friends in the plaza."


- Source unknown

Quotes of the Week


"The tragedy of life is not that it ends so soon, but that we wait so long to begin it." W.M Lewis


"The thought is the origin of the word, the word is the origin of the deed, the deed when often repeated becomes habit, habit becomes character and character becomes destiny." The Buddha

Click below for links to other sites that may interest you

Explore a host of resources for religion and spirituality at www.belief.net

Visit www.authentichappiness.org and explore resources for building your own happiness

Tip of the Week


Have you set goals but are having trouble staying on track? You can help yourself by getting an accountability partner. Find a friend who is also working on something, share your goals, and check in with each other once a week for support and accountability. If it's in your nature, a friendly wager may help too.


Working with a coach can provide another source of support and accountability. A coach will also provide guidance, nurturance, focus, and mentorship and hold you and your goals paramount. Visit my website at www.positiveplan.com or give me a call at 518-478-0093 and learn how coaching can help you bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be.




  


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